Empower, Educate and Equip yourself with the legal know how and the tools you need to get divorced and finally settle.

If you’re separated or about to be and ready to get everything finalised and sorted but don't know what to do next...

OR you are looking for a way to do your own divorce and settlement without spending thousands on lawyers...

OR you are looking to make property & parenting agreements and finalising your divorce papers with your ex partner while keeping in control and in the know of each step and stage that needs to be done in the legal process...

THEN you already know what you need to do and that is sign up to do our DIY Blueprint to divorce.

You've made it this far, you've separated or made the decision and that is a big deal and takes courage. We respect that. The problem is now you don't know what is the next step or you might have some idea but are so worried it will be costly.

We don't all have a lawyer on speed dial to ask all those little questions swirling through our minds or to fully explain the process in plain speak. If this is you, you've come to the right place.

This course was created beceause I wish I'd known what I do now. I wish this course had existed for me. 

Lyn knows the law and we both know what is it is like getting divorced. It was during my divorce that she realized how much more support and information is needed for people going through the process.

Knowledge is power. We are all capable of learning and doing things to help us get to a better life. Mum and I want to give this knowledge and know-how to you and save you money and your sanity while we're at it.

"If I didn't do this course I’d still be completely stuck and overwhelmed and simply not getting anywhere. Now I feel really empowered."

  Kelly - March 2023

By the end of this program,

you will have...

• Created your own proposed property orders

  Followed our blueprint video guide and worksheets to determine the rough property pool value, and followed our guide to determine who should get what and why. Used our letter templates to help negotiate your proposed orders and hopefully settle property once and for all.

• Created your own proposed parenting agreement

  Following our guide you will create your own proposed parenting agreement that can be filed as consent orders to sort out everything about the kids.You'll learn how to negotiate it with our templates and how to make it official once you both agree.

• Prepared and attended your mediation (if needed).

  You'll know what mediation is about, you'll be prepared for the day, you'll know what happens on the day and you can follow our blueprint guide to your mediation day.

• Done all things needed to get your official divorce papers.

  You'll have filled in the forms, filed it in court, served it on your ex and attended court following our blueprint with your step by step video and template guide to become officially divorced.

• While in negotiations for the above you'll have created short term routine for property and the kids and you'll have created your new normal.

  We help you create this with checklists, and video guides explaining the law and what to do at the early stages of divorce.

• A guide on how to avoid the court rollercoaster.

  Armed with negotiation strategies and letter templates and video guides. Gained an understanding of arbitration and how to engage a lawyer if you need to.

• A roadmap to follow if you come across problems with your completed orders.

  Video guided explainations of what to do if they break the orders, and what to do if you want to change the orders. Plus a guide to potential issues you may face in the future and how to avoid them.

Going through this course module by module I have gained so much knowledge about my situation and feeling 100% more confident in what I have put together and that a lot of the work I will be able to do myself and that is going to save quite a bit of money. Talking to Lynnette she answered my questions easily in the 30 minutes allotted time and was very caring in her conversation with me. Thank you Divorce course best money I have ever spent.

Past DIY BLUEPRINT member A.R October 2021

This has been hands down. The MOST helpful and supportive resource along my entire process. These amazing women are incredibly experienced and knowledgeable and offer practical actionable advice. 10/10

What’s Inside the "DIY Blueprint for Divorce" 

Module 1

Preparing for the worst but hoping for the best

Module Description: An introduction module easing you into the legal side of separation but also setting you up for an easier process by guiding you through doing the preparation work. This module includes the things people who've been through divorce wished they'd known and done at the beginning of their own divorce. 

Module Highlights:

Guided video lessons, checklists, cheat sheets, and support covering the following topics

• Your partner's divorce personality type and how it can affect your divorce.
• The first practical steps for preparing property settlement.
• Who moves out? The pros and cons. 
• Separation what does it legally mean and how do you do it?
• Where to go for support?

Module 2

Baby steps to your future : the first few weeks

Module Description: Those first few weeks of uncertainty can be stressful. You are guided through all the practical ways to set yourself up on solid ground. You willthen have the strength to go through the next two legal know how modules to get your property and parenting agreements done with a level head and calm heart.

Module Highlights:

We've thought of everything so you don't have to. Follow our guide and checklists and video lessons for:

• Setting up your new normal
• Apply for child support
• Create your new short term routine
• Create your new self care plan

Module 3

Creating your long term parenting plan

Module Description: This is the meaty part where you get to go through the 12 parenting agreements and choose the best fit for your children. Learn how to create them, and negotiate them with your co-parent. Then get them official by following our guide on how to file them in the court.

Module Highlights:

Use our parenting agreement template, be guided by our videos and printables to create your own long term parenting plan.

• Gain a basic understanding of parenting and the law
• Create your parenting agreement 
• Learn how to share your agreement and get to a YES
• Learn how to file your application for Consent Orders in the court.

Module 4

Creating your proposed Property Orders

Module Description: Get your property settlement sorted once and for all. Gain a basic understanding of the law, follow our guided worksheets to find outwhat you should be roughly entitled to and create your proposed property orders. 

Module Highlights:

Following our comprehensive video guide for each stage. Use our templates and letter templates to help you create and negotiate your orders with confidence. 

• An overview of property settlement in Australia
• How to determine contributions
• How to determine future Needs
• Calculating your property split
• Property Agreement Choices
• Superannuation 
• Seeing a Lawyer to give you an accurate assessment
• Sharing your agreement and getting to YES
• Filing your orders in the court

Module 5 plus new Module 5a

Your Mediation Mindset & Disclosure Procedures

Module Description: If you cannot get an agreement from your ex after module 3 & 4 you might need to go to mediation. We will talk you through how to arrange it, prepare and manage it.

Module Highlights:

• A mediation overview
• Lawyers and Costs for Mediation
• What to expect on the day
• How to prepare for your mediation
• How to negotiate
• What to do after Mediation
• How to prepare your disclosure.
• How to ask for their disclosure.
• Pre-action procedures guide.

Module 6

Avoiding the Court Rollercoaster

Module Description: If Mediation didn't work we still have your back. We guide you through the steps you can continue to take to try get those agreements sorted.

Module Highlights:

• Negotiation
• Letter Templates for Negotiation
• Arbitration
• Engaging a lawyer and keeping your costs down

Module 7

Glitch Happens

Module Description: After you've finally got it all sorted, life isn't a fairytale and issues may arise in the future. We cover the potential issues you might face and how to prepare for them.

Module Highlights: 

• What to do if they break the orders?
• What to do if you want to change the orders
• Inevitable bumps in the road

Module 8

Untying the Knot

Module Description:  We guide you through doing the divorce papers yourself saving you money and stress.

Module Highlights:

Guided lessons in video and supported documents on

• Brief Overview of Law and Divorce.
• How to fill in the form
• How to file your divorce application. 
• How to serve your divorce application
• What happens on court day?

After signing up to the course I can confidently say that I feel more empowered and in control of my situation.It was an amazing feeling that I was not alone and somebody was looking after me. Your course helps me to understand my rights before my lawyer tells me. Now my questions are more direct and my lawyer doesn’t need to explain the basics to me (saving me money). I couldn’t have gone through last year without you. Every single module is full of practical strategies that have helped me understand my rights, identify my ex’s behaviour and learn how to protect myself. 

Current Member Maria  - March 2023

It feels great to be walked through with clear and helpful guidance. I have a sense of empowerment that I can do it myself with minimal costs from lawyers. It was amazing that I had all my paperwork organized before I even had my first meeting with a lawyer. This course has saved me paying hours of time with incredibly expensive lawyers. I can’t thank you enough for all your sage advice and support.

 Past Member Julia - March 2023

Plus as a platinum member you get this additional support to get you through your divorce.

2 x 30 min or 3 x 30min phone consultation with Lyn

Get a one on one session with Lyn to ask any questions you might have.

(A $600 Value)

What You’ll Get:

Ask your questions that you wish you could ask a lawyer for free. 

• Draw on her 35 years experience
• Speak to someone who really cares
• Upfront payment option platinum members get an extra third call. 

Enrol in your "DIY Divorce Blueprint" as a Platinum Member today

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Since doing the course I feel good and ready for action. Before I was totally overwhelmed but now I have a “I can do this attitude”. It has totally saved on lawyers fees because It has helped me minimize the need to book appointments with my lawyer as I feel much more equipped with the knowledge I need. Thanks so much for your help and knowledge. I have recommended this course  to so many people - Rebecca Past Member 2022

"Lyn and Laura host the Q+A sessions with sincerity, knowledge, experience and empathy. This in itself is a comfort in a situation where your narrative is reduced to number crunching and where it is often best to leave emotion and disappointment out. Having the opportunity to informally ask for an immediate reflection on your pressing concern, in the presence of others also sharing their divorce realities, is invaluable. These sessions are the perfect companion to progressing through your self-education or for clarification before, between or after your own legal engagements. I often benefit from other members' relevant questions, as much as my own. You could not wish for a better situation, an hour to have a cup of tea and engage with an experienced lawyer in the evening or early morning knowing you can look forward to the next opportunity. Q+A with these two gorgeous women is a welcome resource and support in navigating this solo journey. This testimonial is written in honesty and with gratitude."

MEG -September 2023